* 사랑에 관한 글귀 96가지 *    

                   1. 
                       맑은 밤 하늘의 보름달보다 
                       구름사이로 간간이 보이는 반달이 
                       더 운치가 있듯 사랑 또한 이와 같다. 
                   2. 
                       처음..사랑한다는 말과 
                       3년 후.. 사랑한다는 말은 다르다. 
                       전자는 환상, 후자는 타협. 

                   3. 
                       맹목적일 때 가장 순수하고 
                       합리적일 때 가장 무미건조한 것, 
                       사랑은 그렇게 이율 배반적이다. 

                   4. 
                       여자가 몸에 지녀야 할 것은 
                       다이아몬드보다는 적당한 그리움. 

                   5. 
                       사랑의 세대론, 
                       10대는 공상.. 20대는 정열.. 30대는 체험.. 
                       40대는 조화.. 50대는 동행... 60대는 추억. 
                       70대는 재생...80대는 주책. 

                   6. 
                       사랑의 수식(數式). 
                       기다림+뻐근함+괴로움+아름다움+외로움+그리움+서글픔+ 
                       즐거움+서운함+놀라움+아픔+기꺼움+애태움+미침 = 잘 모름. 

                   7. 
                       짙은 사랑일수록 
                       변색은 금방 나타난다. 

                   8. 
                       무지개, 노을, 미녀, 꿈 
                       다같이 아름답다. 
                       그래서 똑같이 순간적이다. 

                   9. 
                       사랑은 축적되고 
                       질투는 충전된다. 

                   10. 
                       시(詩)는 말에 대한 사랑. 
                       철학은 삶에 대한 사랑. 
                       과학은 미지에 대한 사랑. 
                       사랑은 사람에 대한 사랑. 

                   11. 
                       컴퓨터에게 '사랑이란?'하고 물었다. 
                       '저는 신제품이라 아직은 잘 모릅니다. 

                   12. 
                       사랑은 
                       환상으로 시작해서 
                       착각의 확인으로 끝나기 쉽다. 

                   13. 
                       사랑은 
                       리얼리스트에겐 결혼. 
                       로맨티스트에겐 연애. 
                       상징주의자에겐 섹스. 
                       고전주의자에겐 자살. 

                   14. 
                       사랑은 
                       욕망으로 허물어지고, 기대로 무너지며, 
                       의심으로 퇴색된다. 

                   15. 
                       인생은 칸타빌레 
                       사랑은 아파쇼나토. 
                       *칸타빌레(cantabile) : 노래하듯이 
                       *아파쇼나토(appassionato) : 정열적으로 

                   16. 
                       떠난다는 것은 
                       마음을 남긴다는 것. 
                       헤어진다는 것은 
                       마음을 빼앗긴다는 것. 
                       사랑한다는 것은 
                       마음을 나눈다는 것. 

                   17. 
                       종교적 사랑은 '내일'이고 
                       인간적 사랑은 '지금'이다. 

                   18. 
                       남자는 진실에 이끌리고 
                       여자는 환상에 유인된다. 

                   19. 
                       갈 데까지 간 사랑은 
                       유효기간이 지난 당첨복권. 

                   20. 
                       첩(妾)은 옷자락을 붙잡고 
                       처(妻)는 마음을 붙잡는다. 

                   21. 
                       사랑엔 휴일이 있지만, 
                       질투엔 공휴일이 없다. 

                   22. 
                       괴롭고 괴로우면 순수하다는 증거이고, 
                       순수하면 순수할수록 참사랑을 하리라. 

                   23. 
                       용기의 결핍증은 
                       '너무 사랑하기 때문에 헤어질 수밖에 없다.'는 말로 미화된다. 

                   24. 
                       사랑은 
                       거부당할 때보다 
                       빼앗기는 게 더 충격적이다. 
                       전자는 손수건을, 
                       후자는 칼을 찾는다. 

                   25. 
                       돈을 잃으면 자유의 일부 상실 
                       건강을 잃으면 생활의 상실 
                       사랑을 잃으면 존재 이유의 상실. 

                   26. 
                       사랑의 슬픔은 이별에 있다. 
                       그러나, 더욱 슬픈 것은 
                       헤어진 후에도 못잊어 하는 것이다. 

                   27. 
                       사랑 때문에 아파본 사람은 
                       사랑 때문에 울지 않는다. 

                   28. 
                       배신이란 
                       한쪽에서의 선택의 실수. 

                   29. 
                       이 세상에서 보기 추한 것 3가지. 
                         (1) 늙은 창녀 
                         (2) 돈 없는 홀아비 
                         (3) 위의 두 사람에게 붙어사는(?) 남녀 

                   30. 
                       사랑의 시작에도 술이 있고, 
                       사랑의 종말에도 술이 있다. 
                       첫 좌석에는 두 사람, 
                       마지막 자리에는 한 사람. 

                   31. 
                       눈을 감으면 떠오르는 사람은 
                       그리움을 남긴 사람. 
                       눈을 뜨고도 생각나는 사람은 
                       아픔을 남긴 사람. 

                   32. 
                       시간 가는 줄 모르게 해주던 여자가 
                       세월 흐르는 줄 모르게 해주는 경우는 드물다. 

                   33. 
                       가장 높은 감정의 통제본부는 
                       무관심이어야 한다. 

                   34. 
                       사람들은 곧잘.. 
                       자기를 싫어하는 사람이 
                       곁을 떠나는 것에도 화를 낸다. 

                   35. 
                       나는 천당에 가지 않으련다. 
                       그곳엔 
                       나의 그대도 없을 테니까. 

                   36. 
                       사랑의 빛은, 강하면 강할수록 
                       더욱 짙은 질투의 그림자를 거느린다. 

                   37. 
                       애증의 갈등이 가장 잘 내포된 말을 
                       여자들은 쓸 줄 안다. 
                       '미워요.' 

                   38. 
                       칭찬은 질투의 외투, 
                       증오는 질투의 내복. 

                   39. 
                       사랑에 빠져 있을 때는 
                       눈을 뜨지 말길... 
                       환상이 그대를 서운케 할 것이므로.. 

                   40. 
                       제일 먼저 하는 것이 
                       영원한 사랑의 약속이고, 
                       제일 지켜지지 않는 것이 
                       그 첫 약속이다. 

                   41. 
                       상대방의 환심을 사려면 
                       그에 대한 칭찬보다 
                       그의 라이벌에 대한 험담을 할 것. 

                   42. 
                       사랑에 있어 
                       입을 통한 가장 효과적인 웅변술은 
                       키스다. 

                   43. 
                       어떨때..당신은 
                       사랑의 말보다 질투의 말을 
                       별식(別食)처럼 즐긴다. 

                   44. 
                       여자는 
                       모를수록 좋은 일을 너무 많이 알고, 
                       남자는 
                       꼭 알아주어야 될 일을 너무 모른다. 

                   45. 
                       남자의 사랑은 반복형, 
                       여자의 사랑은 점층형. 

                   46. 
                       때때로..연인들은..놀랄만한 창조력을 
                       거짓말에서 발휘한다.. 

                   47. 
                       남자는 패스포트에 명함이, 
                       여자는 핸드백에는 화장품이 들어 있다. 
                       .. 자존심을 위해서, 

                   48. 
                       오늘날의 남녀차별은 
                       일찍이 어느 시대엔가 
                       남자가 여자에게 지배당했던 
                       역사의 보복이 아닐는지. 

                   49. 
                       많은 사람들과 함께 있을 때, 
                       여자는 곧잘 
                       자기 애인이 질투를 느끼도록 행동하고, 
                       남자는 자꾸만 
                       영웅으로 보이려다 바보가 되기 일쑤다. 

                   50. 
                       여자의 비밀은 공개되면 추태가 되고, 
                       남자의 비밀은 공개되면 낭만이 되다니,,,. 

                   51. 
                       이별을 하고서야 아름다워지는 사랑, 
                       그것은 감정의 자기도취다. 

                   52. 
                       '사랑해요'와 '안녕히' 사이에 존재하는 것, 
                       그것을 우리는 세월이라고 부른다. 

                   53. 
                       이 세상에서 가장 아름다운 사람는 
                       사랑에 실패하고서도 
                       새로운 삶을 열심히 개척하는 사람이다. 

                   54. 
                       살아갈 가치도 없는 인간은 
                       사랑 때문에 자살하는 부류이고, 
                       사랑할 자격이 없는 인간은 
                       사랑을 위해서 목숨을 바치지 못하는 부류이다 

                   55. 
                       봄에는 소녀와, 
                       여름에는 귀부인과, 
                       가을에는 올드미스와, 
                       겨울에는 천사와. 
                       사랑을... ^^ 

                   56. 
                       사랑에 있어 
                       처음에는 감정이 사람을 속이지만 
                       나중에는 사람이 감정을 속인다. 

                   57. 
                       이른 사랑은 물처럼 흘러가고 
                       늦은 사랑은 불처럼 타오른다. 

                   58. 
                       거짓으로 사랑하는 척하기보다 
                       사랑하지 않는 척하기가 더 어렵다. 

                   59. 
                       본처와 애인과의 관계는 
                       원금과 이자. 
                       돈을 빌려 줄 때는 
                       누구나 원금을 떼이지 않으려 한다. 

                   60. 
                       여자는, 누구나 
                       백마를 타고 오는 왕자를 꿈꾸지만, 
                       실제로 맞이하는 것은 
                       자기가 탈 말을 끌고 오는 
                       마부인 경우가 허다하다.

                   61. 
                       뜨겁게 사랑하고 
                       차갑게 헤어져라. 

                   62. 
                       사랑에 있어 
                       가장 먼저 무너지는 것은 
                       자존심이다. 

                   63. 
                       관심을 더욱 끌기 위해서는 
                       무관심한 척할 것. 

                   64. 
                       사랑의 논쟁에 있어 
                       미경험자는 흥분하고, 
                       진행중인 사람은 말이 없고, 
                       실패한 사람은 미소를 짓는다. 

                   65. 
                       문화가 오염되면, 인간이 병들고 
                       인간이 병들면, 사랑이 입원을 한다. 

                   66. 
                       높이 나는 새는,,,,,,,,,,, 
                       짝을 잃는다. 

                   67. 
                       사랑에는 국경이 없다지만 
                       실제로는 
                       옆집 담장도 넘기 어렵다. 

                   68. 
                       여자는 
                       자신의 감정에 자신이 속았다고 
                       판단되는 그 순간부터.. 
                       대담해지기 시작한다. 

                   69. 
                       사귐에 있어서의...필요악 
                       돈.. 여가.. 나이 

                   70. 
                       사랑하는 이와 시선을 마주쳤을 때 
                       그것을 피하는 것은 
                       나를 좀 오래 쳐다봐 달라는 것. 

                   71. 
                       일에서의 관계는 
                       적이냐 동지이냐이고, 
                       연예에서의 관계는 
                       질투냐 무관심이냐이다. 

                   72. 
                       남자의 욕망은 
                       출세, 여자, 돈 
                       여자의 욕망은 
                       출세해서 돈이 많은 남자 

                   73. 
                       사랑을 하는 모든이들은. 
                       때론 돈으로 시험 당하고, 
                       때론 상대방으로 시험 당한다. 

                   74. 
                       프로포즈를 많이 받은 이는 
                       '알맞은 때'에 '알맞은 사랑'를 
                       선택할 수 없게 된다. 

                   75. 
                       자기가 좋아하는 사람이 무관심하면 
                       그가 싫어하는 다른 이에게 
                       일부러 관심을 보낸다. 

                   76. 
                       남자는 
                       무작정 여자에게 호기심을 갖지만, 
                       여자는 
                       자기에게 관심을 보이는 남자에게 
                       관심을 갖는다. 

                   77. 
                       여자 앞에서 말이 없는 남자는 
                       자신이 없는 것일테고, 
                       떠들어대는 남자는 
                       이미 포기해 버렸기 때문이다. 

                   78. 
                       여자는 
                       16 살 때의 꿈을 
                       61 살 때까지 간직한다. 

                   79. 
                       나이든 ..남녀를 
                       가장 즐겁게 하는 말은 
                       '여자(남자)를 조심하세요' 

                   80. 
                       비는 
                       떠난 사람을 원망하게 하고, 
                       눈은 
                       잊어버린 사람까지 떠오르게 한다. 

                   81. 
                       이 세상에서 가장 슬픈 것은 
                       너무 일찍 
                       죽음을 생각하게 되는 것이고, 
                       가장 불행한 것은 
                       너무 늦게 사랑을 깨우치는 것이다. 

                   82. 
                       얼굴이 먼저 떠오르면 
                       보고 싶은 사람이고, 
                       이름이 먼저 생각나면 
                       잊을 수 없는 사람이다. 

                   83. 
                       가장 즐거운 일의 하나는 
                       기다리고 있는 사람에게로 가는 일이다. 

                   84. 
                       이유가 있는 사랑, 
                       조건이 있는 결혼, 
                       목적이 있는 이별, 
                       다 무제(無題)다. 

                   85. 
                       결혼을 전제로 사랑을 하지 말것. 
                       누가, 
                       추리소설을 뒤에서부터 읽는가. 

                   86. 
                       여자의 뒤만 쫓아 다니던 남자는 
                       결국 여자에게 쫓기게 된다. 

                   87. 
                       로맨티스트는 복권을 사고, 
                       리얼리스트는 증권을 산다. 

                   88. 
                       로맨티스트는 편지를 쓰고, 
                       리얼리스트는 전화를 한다. 

                   89. 
                       가장 맑은 무형언어 - 미소. 
                       가장 빛나는 유형언어 - 눈물. 

                   90. 
                       무엇이든지 해주겠다는 사람에겐 
                       아무 것도 기대하지 말 것. 

                   91. 
                       현대 사회에서 인정하는 유일한 정신병....? 
                       "사랑"........^^ 

                   92. 
                       여자의 본심은 싸울 때 드러나고, 
                       남자의 본성은 취중에 노출된다. 

                   93. 
                       플레이보이의 무기는 
                       수완보다는 뻔뻔스러움. 

                   94. 
                       사랑을 장난감으로 아는 사람이 
                       제일 먼저 고장이 난다. 

                   95. 
                       남자는 말한다. 
                       용서할 수는 있지만, 
                       잊을 수는 없다고. 
                       그러나 여자는 말한다. 
                       잊을 수는 있지만, 
                       용서할 수는 없다고.