1. If you could invite anyone in the world to dinner, who would it be?
세상에 누구라도 저녁식사에 초대할수 있다면 누구를 초대할 것인가?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
유명해지고 싶나? 어떤 식으로?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
전화하기 전에 할말에 대한 연습같은것 하나? 왜 그런가?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
완벽한 날은 어떤 날인가?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
자신이나 남에게 마지막으로 노래한게 언제인가?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30 year old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
90살까지 사는 것과, 30살까지만 늙고 60살까지 사는것 중 어느것이 좋나?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
당신이 어떻게 죽게 될지에 대한 직감같은게 있나?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
당신이 상대방과 비슷해 보이는것 3가지 말하시오.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
인생에서 가장 고마웠던 것은 무었인가?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
만약 바꿀수 있다면 어떻게 자랐었으면 좋았겠나?
11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
상대방에게 4분동안자기인생에 대해서 최대한 세세히 말하시오.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
내일 아침에 갑자기 새로운 능력이 생긴다면, 그게 뭐였으면 하나?
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
당신에 대한 모든 것을 말해 줄수 있는 영매같은게 있다면 뭘 물어보겠는가?
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
오래동안 꿈꿨었었던 뭔가가 있나? 왜 못했나?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
태어나서 제일 잘한게 뭔가?
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
우정에서 가장 중요한게 뭔가?
17. What is your most treasured memory?
가장 소중한 기억은 뭔가?
18. What is your most terrible memory?
 가장 끔찍한 기억은 뭔가?
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
1년후에 갑자기 죽는걸 안다면 다르게 살아갈것인가? 왜 그런가?
20. What does friendship mean to you?
우정은 당신에게 어떤 의미인가?
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
사랑, 연애가 당신 삶에 어떤 역할을 하나?
22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
서로 번갈아가면서 상대방의 긍정적인 점 5개를 말하시오.
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
가족끼리는 얼마나 살가운가? 어릴때 다른 사람들보다 행복했나?
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
 어머니와의 관계는 어떤가?
25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... ”
"우리는"으로 시작하는 참문장 3개 만드시오.
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... ”
"나에게나와 XXX를 나눌수 있는 사람이 있었으면 좋겠다." 를 완성하시오. 
27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
만약 상대방과 친구가 된다면, 그 사람에 뭘 알아야겠는지를 서로 말하시오.
28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
상대방에게 그것에 대해 자신은 어떤지를 말하시오.
29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
가장 쪽팔렸던 순간에 대해서 서로 이야기 하세요.
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
혼자, 또는 누군가 앞에서 마지막에 울었던 것은 언제인가?
31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
당신이 그것에 대해 좋아하는 무언가를 상대방에게 말하시오??
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
농담까기에는 민감한 것이 있으면 무었인가?
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
오늘저녁에 혼자 갑자기 죽게 된다면 가장 후회될것같은 하지 못한 말은 무었인가? 왜 아직 말안했나?
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
당신 집에 불이 나서 사람 동물 다 구하고 딱 한개 물건 챙길시간이 있다면 뭘 선택하겠는가? 왜 그런가?
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
가족중 누구의 죽음이 가장 충격적이겠는가? 왜그런가?
36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
서로 각자의 고민을 상대방에게 말하고 자신이라면 어떻게 다룰지에 대한 조언을 구하시오.