육아게로 가야하나 결게로 가야하나 고민하다가 조금더 많은분들이 보시는 결게에 글 남겨요 저희애기는18개월이구요 16개월부터 어린이집 다녔고 적응을 꽤나 잘해서 여태 큰 문제는 없었어요..그런데 제가 다음주부터 맞벌이를 시작하게 됐거든요ㅠㅠㅠ친정부모님이나 시부모님 모두 차로 한시간넘게 떨어진곳에 계셔서 하원을 도와주실수 없는 형편이라 아이를 여섯시반정도까지는 어린이집에 맡겨야할것같아요(등원은 아홉시반)그런데 이 부분이 너무나 걸려요 저는 첫아이이고 나이도 그리 많지않아 주변에 아이가진 지인이 거의 없다시피해서 물어볼곳도 없어서요ㅠㅠ아이가 너무 늦게까지 어린이집에 있는다면 말은 못하지만 스트레스가 엄청날까요?적응이 되면 괜찮아 질런지..사실 여유롭진 않지만 외벌이로 경제적인 큰 어려움은 없어요 다만 제가 경제력을 좀 갖고싶고 제가 한살이라도 젊을때 한푼이라도 더 모아놓자는 생각이있어서 무리해서라도 일을 시작하는건데 아이가 너무 걸리네요 부모님이나 친구들 신랑 모두 몇년 더 있다가 일하라고 그러고 있구요ㅠ마음 다잡기가 참 힘드네요 아이 생각해서 제 욕심을 버려야하는건지 아니면 아이도 저도 적응이 되면 괜찮아지는건지 궁금하네요ㅠ